A hard man is good to find, or at least so I've heard. What I do know for certain is that the ultimate hand job is within the grasp of most women, provided they know the basics.

Men Love Hand Jobs

First of all, men love hand jobs. Actually any kind of job that involves the penis is going to go over just fine. So a good hand job, unless it involves some form of agony, is pretty nearly always achievable.

Second, from the woman's point of view, a hand job is about the least strenuous and involved of the various sex acts your man may request of you, thus even the ultimate hand job can be a fairly stress free and simple means of satisfying your partner - just make sure he returns the favour!

Men, being very visually stimulated creatures, need very little coaxing for arousal, but when it comes to the perfect hand job, the consensus is that nothing will add to his pleasure like the sight of your exposed bosom. We lads are nothing if not consistent, and the mere glimpse of the feminine orbs dangling in proximity to our John Thomases, especially during manual arousal, turns a regular hand job into an ultimate hand job within milliseconds.

Hand Job Techniques

The primary consideration for a perfect hand job is an erection. Now if the old willy is not up to the job immediately, even after you let your twins out for a walk, you can use some lusty 'dirty' talk to help wind him up. Most men respond quite well to a bit of gutter talk, especially if profanity isn't part of your normal routine.

Then there are just about an endless variety of techniques for a hand job one can employ: one handed hand jobs, two handed, with or without lubricant, up and down versus sideways motions, etc., etc. You can concentrate on the whole length of the penis, or simply the shaft or the glans, or even just massage his balls, though this will generally more patience on your part before he achieves an orgasm.

Some guys prefer to have a lubricant applied for a hand job, some prefer a one or two handed technique. Still others enjoy a squeeze application of pressure, rather than the standard up and down motion. The idea is that you have to communicate with your partner to understand what kind of hand job pleases him, just as you have to inform him of what gets your juices flowing.

A good rule of thumb to judge your ability to give a perfect hand job is if you don't hear him yelping, you're probably doing something right.

Try Surprise

One of the best means of providing the ultimate hand job is to surprise your guy with one when he least expects it: at a party, in the washroom of a restaurant, in an alley - you get the idea. Spontaneity and the element of surprise can transform a regular hand job into the perfect hand job in no time.