Assume the position for six of the best!

Whereas those words once struck fear into the hearts of schoolboys across the country, they now reflect a substantial and growing interest in the good old sexual pastime of spanking.

For many people, a good swat on the derriere is something synonymous with childhood punishments, which is precisely where the dynamics of pleasure and pain come to bear in this deliciously naughty but nice peccadillo.

Without getting too Freudian about it, suffice to say that adding an erotic spanking into one's sexual set list can be a spicy pick me up to the regular routine, and is certainly among the most common practices for straight and gay couples alike.

Childhood Memories

I'll never forget when I was about 12 years old, and was spending my first sleep over at a school camp with my class.

Though we were well supervised, a group of boys managed to sneak over to our room and the eight of us proceeded to give one another a jolly good spanking while playing an inventive game of truth or dare.

Though we eventually woke our chaperones, who were not the least amused, I can shamelessly say that it was the first time I experienced a sense of sexual titillation, even if I wasn't aware of it until some time later. I do remember a delightful sense of flushed excitement however, and my wonderfully aching bottom recalled the hand of Peter Denham spanking me with a frenzied motion, only to be followed by an equally enrapturing and delicate rubbing and patting, which was both soothing and sensual at once.

It still gives me yummy goosebumps just thinking about it!

Adult Games - Erotic Spanking

I've managed to incorporate a little spanking fetish into each of my subsequent relationships, with very little hesitancy from my partners, save one. I once dated a chap who was so tender and sensitive that he simply couldn't bring himself to give me a spanking for fear of hurting me. Lovely lad that, if a bit repressed.

There is something so commonplace when it comes to erotic spanking, as most couples engage in some form of it or another at some point in their sex lives because:

• it's easy to do
  
  
• it doesn't require instruction
  
  
• it's both decidedly kinky and relatively conventional
  
  
• it can be enjoyed by both partners

I must confess however, that most of my boyfriends have shown much greater enthusiasm for applying a spanking than in receiving one. I asked a male friend about that once, and he replied, "It probably has something to do with the submissive element of spanking, and if you must know, men generally aren't keen on that feeling and will avoid it at all costs, especially in the bedroom."

I'm not entirely sure I agree with that, as I have friends whose men have enjoyed a bloody good spanking, so maybe I just attract those who'd prefer to be handing out the punishment rather than receiving it.

These day, spanking fetish is such an acceptable form of sexual pleasure that whole magazines are dedicated to it. Books, even! Bottoms can be spanked with the hand or a paddle, and let me tell you now, if you choose to try a paddle, there are all sorts of fun variations available. Leather paddles, fur covered paddles, and rubber paddles are all popular amongst spanking enthusiasts, although my personal favourite is a rubber paddle that's covered in baby pink fur. Cute!

So it seems that spanking has finally come of age, and high time too, as it's just about the least involving of all sexual practices. No equipment's necessary and it doesn't require training, and is so easy to accomplish that even a virgin can master it within seconds! And it's good, clean fun!

Give It a Try!

If you're among the very few who have never experienced an erotic spanking, why not give it a try? The only thing you have to fear is how much you might enjoy it!