Forget what you may have heard about talking dirty from your Granny, the verdict is in and it is definitely hot! Ask any chap you know, and he'll likely tell you that a women talking dirty to him is a HUGE turn on.

It probably has something to do with the idea that talking dirty to men is associated with some of the once illicit, shadowy elements of human sexuality; the tart, the pimp, the stripper, the hustler, which effortlessly conjures up a host of titillating fantasies that we can all now indulge in openly.

The Art of Talking Dirty

There is an art to talking dirty however, it's not just a matter of spewing forth profanities like Cynthia Payne on a particularly bad night.

Men, whether they admit to it or not, appreciate a little encouragement while making love, and this can be as innocuous as a sensual moan or running your nails down his back at the opportune moment. When it comes right down to it however, the best option to accommodate this is by talking dirty to men. It sounds simple and it is.

Here are a few guidelines that should help women talking dirty to inject the right element of naughtiness at the right time.

1. Try coaxing him a little with some glowing appraisals of his endowment. This may require a little tact, as men are notoriously sensitive about the size of their penises, and nothing can spoil the mood more quickly than some dubious claims of enormity when the reality is far from it.
   
   Be diplomatic when talking dirty, but make sure he's aware of your appreciation of what he has to offer. The idea is to present a different side of your sexual character, which he may not have previously experienced - you've been the good girl but tonight you're a bad girl, and I guarantee he won't be disturbed by the transition at all.
   
   
2. The old talking dirty standby's of 'Yes! Yes! Yes!' and 'Give it to me bad boy!' may not be original, but that's no reason to drop them from the repertoire. It's this kind of subtle encouragement which can spur your guy on to new heights of lusty activity.
   
   As I said before, men actually dig this sort of thing, not least because it's reassuring for them that you're enjoying the experience as much as they are. Nothing can crimp your sex life more than listlessness or falsehoods, and the more sincere you are when talking dirty to men, the better.
   
   
3. You can achieve the same results by referencing your own anatomy as well as his. Tell him to nibble your nipples, or squeeze your breasts or slap your backside, and he will comply instantly!
   
   Despite what you may have read or heard, men absolutely love it when women take some initiative in bed and women talking dirty is one of the most empowering means of taking the reins. By talking dirty, you can take control of the situation and literally direct your man in your own mini-porno movie, with or without the cameras, but that's another topic entirely.

When it comes to talking dirty, the idea is that it's not a contest on how profane you can be, but rather how you can set a particular mood by doing so. The bottom line for women talking dirty is to keep it simple, keep it sincere, and where he's concerned, keep it coming!